I am just about to return to work after a period of fourteen weeks of long
service leave. According to sources (okay, Wikipedia), long service leave ‘is a benefit
unique to Australia and New Zealand’, and used to be a particular entitlement of the public
service which leached out into other workplace environments. Anecdotally, I
don’t know anyone who actually takes their long service leave entitlement other
than public servants and the education and medical professions.
The last time I did not work for a sustained period, I was in my
twenties, six years out of university. I was living and working in London and
spent at least four months continuously travelling and the rest of the time
supply teaching. As many young Australians have a similar experience at this
stage of their lives it’s fairly easy to imagine what a great year I had. Long service leave has been an entirely different experience. Obviously
I’m older, hopefully I’m wiser, and I will return to work happier.
This unique experience has been a gift - of time. Something that in our
contemporary experience, we are so short of, we’ve even coined the phrase
‘time-poor’ to explain this phenomenon.
Media outlets frequently run stories about work-life balance which
discuss the benefits of time off work – even if that’s just the weekend. I’ve
been off work for long enough to forget which day of the week it is.
Of course, the reason this time off is a gift and not a burden is
because I work in an industry where it is possible to accrue this time and choose
long service leave at full pay. I’ve been with the same employer for eleven
years and, even if I left, my leave for the most part would be portable. I am
not one of the unfortunate Australians who have time on their hands because
they are out of work (although there were many stories in the media immediately
following the GFC about the unexpected benefits which many out of work
Australians came to appreciate).
When I return to work everyone will ask me what I’ve been doing. And
whilst I haven’t been travelling as many people do, I have benefited from the
gift of time in the following ways:
Connecting
I’ve spent much more time with my husband – during the week and on the
weekends instead of doing schoolwork. I’ve had time to visit with friends,
sometimes for a whole day. I was able to see a friend with whom I had not sat
down for at least seven years, and it felt like our last conversation was
yesterday. I’ve had time to be with my elderly mother, both when she needs me
and just to chat. I’ve had more people over to the house in than I have had in the
last five years. Twice I’ve made meals for 12 people! With no drama! This leads
to my next point …
Home-making
Always opposed to being the stay-at-home wife because of its 1950s
connotations, I found myself well able to fill the days when I didn’t have
plans. Who would’ve thought I would read recipe books, watch the odd cooking
program, seek out new ingredients in the shops, and generally cook like a
trainee domestic goddess? I haven’t begrudged doing housework because it hasn’t
taken up precious weekend time. I actually fold clothes which have been washed
instead of living out of the basket for a week. I’ve walked my dog - the added
bonus being the three cafes within walking distance.
Living
By living, I mean
doing the things which make my life fulfilling and which contribute to my
well-being. Reading is fundamental to my existence, experiencing other people
and other places through stories gives me immense joy. I’ve finished nine books,
five of which were over 500 pages and all of them for pleasure. I joined a gym
and have attended three to five times a week, with very good results for both
my physical and mental energy levels. I have not had even a sniffle – usually a
miraculous feat for a teacher during Term Two. And … I have not once been exhausted.
Reflecting
The opportunity to increase self-awareness is central to the gift of
time. I knew that through rest and distance from work I would be able to
perceive certain thoughts with greater clarity and this has been very true. I
have had time to pay attention to my emotions, to experience them in their
fullness. I have given due consideration to my future, but not so much that I
have it all sown up. And I look forward to tomorrow, whatever it may bring.
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